Another scary gal, screechy chanteuse Ani DiFranco, reassures the upcoming Spin magazine that love hasn't changed her. She's engaged to sound engineer Andrew Gilchrist. ``The thing that makes our relationship so perfect is that it's so dubiously gendered,'' she says. ``We take turns. It's supposed to be, `Oh, big righteous babe falling for a man. Boo, hiss, taboo, betrayal.' And it's like, `You should see him! He's more of a girl than I am!' ''